Dear Annie: As a witness to a friend's marriage, I vowed to help keep their relationship strong. Would you please print something I could give them about verbal abuse? His wife has a serious drinking problem, and when she's had too much, she goes berserk, screaming hateful things to her husband in front of others. It's horrific. I can't tell whether it's only the alcohol talking or whether she has deep-seated issues. I realize there will be no change until she admits she has a problem.