Dear Annie: When my daughter was 14, she falsely accused me of physical abuse. She is now 33 and brings up these false charges whenever she is having difficult issues in her own life. She blames me for all of her problems. Even worse, my sister enables and promotes her negative view of me. I want closure for all the pain she has caused my family and me. I don't know whether I should take legal action or whether it is simply better not to have any further contact with her.