Paul writes, “I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also” (2 Timothy 1:5 NIV).

I have five living first cousins. They reside in five different states. In the past twelve months, I have been able to visit with all of them in their home settings. I was especially grateful to spend time with Connie, who lives in Arizona and whom I only see about twice a decade.

Family is important, and staying connected is one of the greatest gifts and opportunities of life. In Paul’s letter to Timothy, he addresses the young man as “son” and commends him for his faith, which first resided in his grandmother and mother (2 Timothy 1:2). Faith is a blessing that can be passed on from generation to generation.

My grandmother prayed for each of her grandchildren that we become lovers of Jesus. Before her death, she saw her prayer realized. I am grateful for her petitions on my behalf and for the opportunity to share our faith when I converse with my cousins and their families.

We live in a disconnected world. There are numerous “bad influences” for us to emulate. Parents and grandparents worry about the impact our society may have on those who come next. What can we do? As in my grandmother’s case, we can pray. Not just once but continually, as long as it takes. And we can set a good example. Not just proclaiming what we believe and in Whom we believe but how an active relationship with Jesus impacts our lives and how we live.

Because I regularly watch my grandchildren, I am aware that I influence their lives. I would like to think that I always model exemplary behavior, but you know how it is! Authenticity goes a long way.

Spending time with them, listening to their concerns, and trying to approach life with integrity and grace have an impact. (I know they’re paying attention because they have adapted some of my mannerisms and parrot my words for good or ill!)

You may be thinking that you don’t have biological children or grandchildren within your sphere of influence. But neither did Paul. He “adopted” Timothy into his family and called him “son.”

He encouraged Timothy to be brave, to face suffering and pain, and to live faithfully in good times and bad (1 Timothy 1:4, 8b-9). Paul didn’t dismiss the challenges in his own life but provided a healthy, albeit imperfect, model (vv. 11-12, 15). Each of us have a sphere of influence.

If you can think of someone who has positively influenced your life and they’re still around, I urge you to let them know. Call, write, stop by. It is always encouraging to know one has made a difference.

God has given us the gift of connection. Receive it, and share it gladly.

Barb Yorks, First Presbyterian Church, Lewisburg